By Jackson Santy ’13
THE ROUNDUP
Nobody thinks twice when rating a movie or a new album, giving it a 10 if they thoroughly enjoy it or a one if they were nauseated by it—this is a perfectly normal expression of personal preference.
But what happens when you change that movie or album to a human being, specifically a student you know?
“Lulu,” an app run through Facebook with this very purpose, allows female students to anonymously rate male students based on categories like looks and personality.
As each girl assesses a particular boy, the boy is given a numerical rating based on the average of each category.
The final number results in somewhere between a 4.0 (the lowest) to a 10.0 (the highest) and that number remains on the boy’s page.
Despite the fact that the creators of “Lulu” enabled the site to only be accessed by females with Facebook accounts, the males have found ways to access and see their numbers.
But I can imagine the creators saw that coming.
However, what the “Lulu” administrators don’t see is the fact that they have developed something truly dangerous.
They’ve given teenagers a harbor for blatant sexism and an easy opportunity for cyber bullying.
Despite the fact that girls can only comment using a selection of prewritten hashtags (i.e. “handsome,” “loves his mother,” and some other more suggestive options), this doesn’t mean people won’t get hurt.
Upon it’s burst of popularity, “Lulu” became the talk of almost everybody on campus, spreading like a disease.
I’ve heard many fellow students discussing their ratings, vigorously comparing with others who were voted higher or lower.
The bullying aspect comes when you strip this app down, it becomes a simple yet vicious way of saying “you’re not good enough” or “he’s better than you.”
Soon enough, there will be an equivalent of “Lulu” for a male to rate females and thus another problem arises.
If two opposing apps exist where both genders can rate each other, it leads to severe tension between the genders.
When on the surface it may feel like a stupid, juvenile app, “Lulu” could potentially be responsible for lowering the self-esteem of others, creating tension among genders and even go as far as drive somebody to suicide like we see so often on the news.
jake • May 20, 2013 at 6:58 pm
Of course cyberbullying is out of control. Kids cant drink, drive, or go on the internet responsibly without parental supervision. Nor should they. This is not a failure or technology, its not a failure in childrens behavior, its a failure of adults to adjust to this new technology and recognize how powerful it is. Particularly those uncomputer savvy adults who lack the imagination to see over the horizon at where the intersection of 24/7 internet and children is!. Or those who are making money of “counselling” those who are cyberbullied, or inventing “prevention” programs rather than telling parents the simple easy, cheap, healthy option!
Simple. Don’t give kids a smart phone. Sure let them on the internet at home, semi-supervised. But with a smart phone they turn into zombies, tweeting not speaking, dumbed down, inarticulate, unable to read faces, unused to reading faces, and as face reading the way we learn to empathisize these kids don’t learn empathy, they don’t read long books, they don’t exercise as much as before, they don’t write long sentences or long paragraphs.
Its a disaster of epic proportions. Destroying a generation. This is a case of parents imagination not catching up with the technology. A generation of parents who dont know or understand how powerful a minor with free 24/7 access to technology is!
JUST DOn’t GIVE YOUR KIDS A PHONE< until the slow moving adult population catches up and makes it illegal in schools and ill advised at home.